Everyone has experienced disappointment, everyone disappointment levels are not the same. even the way they cope with disappointment is also different.
For a winner, disappointment, defeat or failure to inspire them to continue to learn and take action so they are better and stronger. For the losers, disappointment, defeat or failure to stop them.
To quote John D. Rockefeller, "I have always tried to turn every disaster into an opportunity." According to Robert Kiyosaki's rich dad, "Only a fool would hope that all goes according to his wishes." Ready for the disappointment does not mean being a loser who lost or passive. With ready mentally and emotionally and financially prepare for the surprises that we might not want then we can act with calm and thoughtful when circumstances do not fit with our wishes.
In other words we must be prepared with the worst possible and always strive (included in this study, had a dream) with a consistent and persistent to achieve the best.
In short, we all make mistakes. We all get upset and disappointed when things do not go according to our wishes. But the difference there is disappointment at the way we process it internally. Rich dad summarized like this. He said, "the size of your success is determined by the power of passion; big dreams, and disappointments did you face during the journey."
Many people who use the disappointment as building a wall around them so they do not grow anymore. But there also are using the disappointment as a foundation or stepping stone to grow better.
How do I use the disappointment, defeat or failure into force. That is by using the following questions:
1. What should I learn from this incident so that tomorrow I get better?
2. I had to learn what such that when facing the same thing, I would be much more successful?
3. Who can help me to face the same problem so that it becomes easier to succeed?
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