Started the year with Courage and Confidence

Started the year with Courage and Confidence

Turned into years, a new journey for 365 days in the future began. Being a better person, happier, more successful, more prosperous certainly the hope of every person. The new resolution is generally always a guide to start a new day in the new year. But how that resolution did not end up as mere notes, but intangible becomes tangible achievement of the year ahead?

Whatever your resolution, finances, career, family, relationships in pairs, and even as individuals, need strong willpower to make it happen. The willingness of the self that emerge due to strong self-confidence, daring, but still not snobby. All these things you can have, by asking these five questions to yourself.

"The question was, made me say to myself there's nothing to worry about in this world for my noble dream. Asked five questions to yourself to give effect: I have no fear, self-confident, yet humble, "said motivator, Ainy Fauziyah, CPC, told Compass Female.

Ainy, in his book Fierce Willingness, write, ask yourself increases self-awareness, makes you think better and act more intelligently and responsibly. Ask ourselves can evoke the willingness and help find your find.

"By asking yourself, heart and mind come together to find answers. Your heart was moved to move your mind in taking concrete steps. This is where the willingness to grow. This is where you start to find a quality of life and more meaningful, "he wrote.

To help you take concrete steps to realize the resolution in order to achieve better quality of life, answer honestly and objectively, when you're alone and with a calm mind, these five questions:

1. What is essential in your life?
This question makes you fully aware of what and who you fight for a dream. That way, you become a formidable person and ready for the challenge. Your persistent dream, as well as maintaining, protecting, loving anything important in your life.

Back to the question, what exactly is most important in your life? A good name, family, parent, spouse, children, career, money? Certainly a lot of important things in your life, then make a priority. List the three most important things in your life. Do not hesitate to write it, because believe it was, everyone would have different answers of course not the same as their priority. However, you have to answer, what is most important and foremost in your life? This is the first step.

2. What exactly do you want?
This question leads you to find the desire, hope, and your goals are. Fully realize your dream to make it easier for you later to proceed to the next stage. Start making a list of what you want most, and the benefits that you want to get. Do not be afraid to write it, though later you will have a long list. Write in your priorities so you can focus grab one by one every desire. Prepare yourself to ponder what exactly you want, fully aware, write, and then take action!

3. What benefits will you get?
You do not just make a wish list or who and what is most important in life. But you also need to realize fully the benefits of what you'll get from all that stuff. That way, you are compelled more accountable to yourself, encouraged to take any major decision, and confident to take every step in your life. You also become more intelligent and wise.

4. What potential do you have?
By getting to know the benefits you'll get from any desire to make it easy to explore your own potential. Your potential is the strength of the self that can be utilized more optimally and have a big role in building the will. By having a will, it is not difficult for you to realize all the resolutions that you have collated the year ahead. All these things are interrelated. So identify what is to be your strengths.

Then how to recognize potential? The trick, observe how the first reaction of your mind at the thought of four things:
* Something that makes you excited to do it.
* Something that you do or that you achieve the extraordinary.
* Something you do with pleasure.
* Something you like.

Thus, the potential of what you have today? Feel free to develop it!

5. What are your actions?
Do not get stuck on the classic problem that occurs in most people. Not a few people who know what to do, but takbanyak among those who actually do it. Answer this question, what is your action? With full awareness answer, you will act proactively as well as real earnest and consistent action.

"What concrete actions encourage your courage to step from the most simple to the extraordinary, which had never occurred to you before. In addition also encourages you are responsible for realizing your desires and motivate you to realize your dreams, whatever the risk, "explains Ainy.

So, if until now you still can not finalize the list of New Year's resolutions, get rid of your temporary list of resolutions. Prepare a new record, divert your attention just by writing a five-minute question and answer one by one with a calm and full consciousness.

The answer to each question had become a major guide to preparing whatever your resolution. Answers to five questions had to be a reference how you run the various roles the next year with more confidence, daring yet remain humble.

Happy new year!

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